When first asked to write about my most “prideful moment,” I wasn’t sure what to say — or if I had anything relevant to say. But that changed recently.
Last month, I was attending my uncle’s memorial service. All of my close family members know I have been in a relationship with Kimberly more than 10 years and they welcome her like a family member. At the memorial were also my great aunt, her daughter and grand-daughter. I have not seen any of them in years. They asked me if I had a church in Dallas I went to. I said, “White Rock Lake is my church — I consider nature my church and pray there.” They have always been very religious and at one time one was a member of a religious group that preaches hatred toward gays.
So I decided it was time to be open and honest. I spoke very openly and honestly and with great Pride about how I have been with Kimberly and how we had three animals we considered our children: Martin, Blondie and Frenchy. It felt so refreshing … and they didn’t even blink an eye!
This article appeared in the Dallas Voice print edition September 13, 2013.